Nate Meyvis

Nicholas Charriere on ambition and fatherhood

Here is Nicholas Charriere's absolutely great short essay on fatherhood and professional ambition. I'm posting about this almost entirely because I simply like the essay (and that's a sufficient reason to post about something).

Strikingly, my half-formed reactions as I read the piece were almost exactly stated in the piece's conclusion (always a strong sign that something is resonating):

  1. Focus on health and energy: most of us would do better worrying a bit less about dividing up the pie and a bit more about growing it.
  2. Almost everyone spends some time in low-value activities that can be cut out. Again, focus more on growing the bank of time and effort where these tradeoffs are salient.
  3. Look for compounding gains (which tend to follow naturally upon proper work, anyway). (See also here.)
  4. There's room to grow the pie even more if you're willing to be a bit weird.

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